I haven't been posting much lately because I've been too busy
cooking. I'm working my way through a stack of pumpkin recipes (inspired
by the insanely good and still-on-top
pumpkin bread) for a recipe
collection to share, but meanwhile I've been making dinner for my
family every night too.
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Happy kids = happy dinner = happy mom. |
What to make for dinner is the perennial question for any
family, and most often for the mom. (Though my husband did cook for two
years when he was a stay-at-home dad, and if there's anything a working
mom needs in her life, it's a househusband. That was the bomb. But I
digress.)
What to make for dinner gets a little more challenging when
special diets are involved. Allergies, diabetes, epilepsy, celiac, and
others become not only life-altering but dinner-conundrum-causing diseases. As if dinnertime wasn't complicated enough.
(Digression alert: I was a
working mom for 10 years, I've been home with my kids for one. The
witching hour, roughly 4:30 and 6 p.m., is same crazy-train it always
was. I really thought that would improve, but at least I no longer have
guilt.)
A few weeks ago, my sister suggested I write about how I've incorporated my new
diet into my family's, and I've thought a lot about that. I've come up
with some solutions for us, but mostly I just make what I make and
expect them to at least try it -- and that hasn't changed from my pre-heart
attack days. Nevertheless, here are a few of my strategies:
Make dinners that are interactive or require final assembly by the individual. Tacos are a great example. I make beef or turkey taco meat for
Scott and the kids, black beans and Mexican rice on the side, and then put
out the lettuce, onion, tomato, cheese, peppers, cilantro, corn, and so
on. My tacos are black beans on corn tortillas; the boys have meat,
cheese, and lettuce on flour, and Scott piles his so high with everything he'd
need a degree from Chipotle to wrap it up. This way I've made one
dinner that creates three happy boys, and I can control what I'm eating too. Other similar meals are kebabs on the grill or make-your-own pizzas (I like veggie-olive oil pizza better anyway).
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Spicy Szechuan stir-fry. |
Make recipes that have multiple ingredients prepared in stages
and mixed together at the end. Think stir-fry. Kids usually
like carrots, broccoli, chicken, beef, and maybe even shrimp too,
but might balk if they are all mixed together with a sauce. Stir-fries
often call for cooking the protein, removing it, adding new oil, cooking
the vegetables, then returning protein to pan, adding the sauce, and
heating through. Just set some protein and veggies aside at each stage, then
proceed with the recipe for the adults or adventurous kid eaters. This
works great for us: Owen will eat it as prepared, I pull out the
components for Noah, and since I've made the stir-fry sauce, I've controlled the fat and sodium, and I take mostly vegetables and just a tiny bit of protein (leaving the lion's share for Scott). Again, only one dinner made, many problems solved.
(Another digression alert: I know you are supposed to teach your kids
how to eat by just putting whatever you've made in front of them and
letting time and their hunger do the trick. All I can say is that
doesn't work for me. Noah simply will not eat anything at all, and the
witching hour extends to bedtime and then he wakes up at 2 a.m. And it's
not like I'm making him mac and cheese while we eat tofu stir fry, and
since this is the method I used with Owen and now he eats pretty much
everything, I'm gonna go with what works.)
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Farmer's Market haul. Eggplant went in the
sauce. Don't tell them (until they are done!). |
Swap out the protein. If it is summer and you love to grill, prep chicken or steak for your
family and a portobello mushroom for you. Or, turkey burgers for them
and veggie burger for you. Or shrimp or salmon for everyone. Make a salad or veggie sides, and roasted
potatoes or whole-grain pilaf to go with it and everyone's happy and
healthy.
Make pasta. Always a family pleaser and easy to make heart-healthy if you just forget that cream and cheese sauces ever existed. I use Barilla Pasta Plus because it has added protein and flax and I love the flavor and texture. This way, if all my boys eat are noodles and raw carrots, they are getting some nutrition.
Make soup. I love soup and it is easy to make tasty and heart-healthy. I have a huge bowl and a gigantic salad. The boys have a smaller salad and grilled cheese or just plain cold deli sliced turkey (they like it) with their "tasting portion" of whatever vegetable-based concoction I've made.
Use your food processor, blender, or immersion blender and lie to your kids about what's in the food you're serving. I've done this more than once. Eggplant marinara looks just like marinara. Kale and spinach pesto looks just like the basil version. Again, I know the whole hide-veggies-vs.-teach-kids-to-love-bok-choy debate, but when this works in my favor, I use it. Also, Noah loves to help me use these kitchen tools and if he's helped me make it, he usually will eat it. We made saag paneer yesterday and he licked his fingers and proclaimed "Mmm!" Who is
that kid?
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Once he figured out Huevos
Rancheros are basically nachos
with eggs, Owen was all in. |
Make breakfast for dinner. Everyone loves this and pancakes or waffles are just as good when made with whole wheat flour, Egg Beaters, and margarine and they'll never know. Make them real scrambled eggs and make yours with whites. Make Huevos Rancheros and skip the chips and cheese and have eggs on beans with warm, spicy sauce. Cut up some apples and call it good. Easy peasy dinner pleasy.
Just make what you are making and if they've tried it without (too much) complaint, and really don't like it or it is too spicy, let them eat peanut butter or cereal and enjoy your tasty meal in peace while congratulating yourself for taking care of your family and your heart. Remember, avoiding stress is heart-healthy too.
And last,
make sure you have leftovers, for your lunch or for those nights when it is just too busy to cook
and your family is having frozen pizza and you shouldn't. Freeze your
leftovers in single-serve portions just for you and don't share; they will run out faster than you think. If it is stir-fry or
pasta sauce, leave the rice and pasta out and make that fresh when you
reheat the sauce.
If you've read my (unsolicited) advice this far, here's your reward: A few good recipes to answer the question "What to Make for Dinner" Volume 1.
And after you've enjoyed a happy, healthy family meal, make your kids do the dishes!